For a lot of people spanking starts out as a childhood punishment and it is far from enjoyable. So how does this idea transform into a concept of sexual pleasure that a sizable amount of the general population enjoys? You might not even think of it this way because it's so common, but technically spanking is an act of BDSM. What's the psychology behind it and, perhaps even more intriguing, is there a history behind it? How long have people been spanking each other, anyway? Well, according to an article on , a lot longer than you'd think.
The first depiction of spanking. The first documented depiction of spanking was found in 1960 by archaeologist Carlo Maurilio Lerici. He went down into the Etruscan tombs in the old town of Tarquinia (which thrived from about 800 BC - 400 BC) where he came upon something called "The Tomb of the Floggings". He found quite an erotic picture: A naked woman bent over being slapped from behind by one man as she held the hips of another man.
The Kama Sutra. Other than this extremely early example of spanking, we can of course find examples of it in the famous Kama Sutra. Aside from all of the sex positions you know and love (and some you couldn't even imagine if you were given a million years to come up with), the Kama Sutra also talks a bit about spanking. According to Broadly, it includes "the four hand positions the spanker can make, the six positions one can be in during 'striking,' and the eight 'kinds of crying' the striked can make."
Because Freud. Of course Freud had something to say about spanking! Why wouldn't he? And we're pretty sure that you could guess exactly what he had to say if your life depended on it, too. In a nutshell, Freud thought that the childhood punishment lead to sadomasochistic preferences in the bedroom.
Sexualized corporal punishment. It does raise a lot of questions. You yourself may love spanking but not have a clue where that love and enthusiasm comes from. When you're engaged in it, you may even have the fleeting doubtful thought of yourself. Is this weird? Am I a little messed up?
The various ways to spank. Some people stick to the simple method and just spank with their hands. However, there are plenty of other tools used for spanking in the bedroom. Riding crops and paddles are often used by those who delve more deeply into the BDSM aspect of spanking for a harder hit.
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